Boss's Daughter Steals Lunch, Gets Sent To Hospital, Boss Tries Blaming Employee

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    Font - Posted by u/Peanut_Sauce_Fiasco 22 hours ago 2 12 8 3 7 AITA for sending my coworker into anaphylactic shock? Not the A-hole I'm at a loss here guys. Realistically, I know I'm in the clear. Legally, I'm in the clear. But I'm being vilified by my coworkers, and I'm genuinely considering quitting my job because of this mess. So I work a pretty standard day job, and at night I help my friend at her restaurant, which serves an assortment of Thai cuisine. Tbh I'm insanely picky, but I fell in
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    Font - Lately my lunches have been disappearing, or I'll open my lunchbox to find half of my food missing. I've tried addressing it, but nothing has been changing, and I was pretty sure it was one of the new hires that was doing it, but had no proof. Until now. Thursday I took my noodles, and my entire tupperware was missing, which hasn't happened before. I'm pissed, but what can I do? A coworker shared her pizza with me and that was that, until today. My boss confronted me and accused me of poi
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    Font - But he's being hateful, and some of my older coworkers are icing me out because I warned him I'd report any harassment to HR if he tried anything funny. Brown nosers, I guess. My friend is aware and offered me a full time job, but I just can't help but feel it's unfair. At the same time, I could have killed his daughter tho... So, AITA? Edit: holy shitballs this blew up! I did email the HR rep and let her know of the situation. She's been on vacation and gets back tomorrow, so I don't kno
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    Font - My coworkers mostly chilled out by the end of my shift, thankfully, after I explained to the (nosiest) friendlier person that I always bring a peanut sauce dish. I guess the general assumption was that I somehow found out who has been stealing lunches and decided to poison them? To answer a common question: this was the first time my pad thai was stolen, and no I'm not the only victim of the lunch thief. I usually take a late lunch, and I'm not the only one, so I'm guessing the lady who w
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    Font - I'm assuming she's fine, but I don't know the severity of her allergy or how much she ate before she had her reaction. I'm not privy to her medical information, sorry guys. Suing... Sounds like a great revenge, but probably not worth the cost of a lawyer. My friend let me take tonight off to just bitch about everything, and I'm probably going to take her job offer. One commenter was right; even if everything settles down, I don't want to deal with a potentially hostile or reactive workpla
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    Font - And for the people calling this fake, okay? It's not, but even if it were, why are you getting mad about it? Karma doesn't give me anything, monetarily or status. I can't exactly give out a bunch of details unless I want to dox myself, and the post seems rushed because I wrote it out of frustration during my lunch. Short time+word limit= rushed. Sorry it didn't meet your writing standards. Anyway, I'll keep reading comments and responding occasionally, but this is it for me unless I get s
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    Font - Edit: the recipe 2 tbsp red curry paste 3/4 cup smooth natural peanut butter 1/4 cup sugar 2 tsp dark soy sauce 2 tbsp cider vinegar 3/4 cup of water 12 oz of coconut milk I cook it on med-low heat and add more water if it seems too thick. And use regular coconut milk!! The low fat isn't as good imo I had to find one for home that seemed similar to the restaurant's since I'm not making enough for an army! I like this one, but I'm also lazy and want it done in 15 minutes. I hope everyone l
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    Rectangle - Forward_Squirrel8879 · 22 hr. ago 22 2 3 Certified Proctologist [27] NTA - Go to HR immediately and make them aware of what is going on. You did absolutely nothing wrong and your boss's behavior is 100% inappropriate.
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    Font - The_Void33 - 22 hr. ago · edited 3 hr. ago Partassipant [3] NTA- You didn't feed it to her. She stole it. At the same time, I could have killed his daughter No, she could have killed herself. My wife had a heavy duty seafood allergy. She wouldn't eat anything without knowing what was in it. Like, Cesar Salad dressing has anchovies in it. Other sauces are made with seafood to. It can had in places you wouldn't expect. So, she would never take someone else food (on principle first, because
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    Font - Madison_M_M - 22 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [5] Absolutely 100% NTA. My boss confronted me and accused me of poisoning my noodles because his daughter (one of the new girls) “borrowed" my lunch Borrowed??? And how exactly is she going to return this food that she borrowed after ingesting it? It's not borrowing when she was never planning on returning it or compensating you. I'm so sorry that your boss is terrible. She stole your food. She didn't ask, she just took it upon herself to take
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    Font - Away_Refuse8493 · 22 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [22] NTA Go to HR pronto. Don't threaten HR. Get this on file. See if you can switch departments or supervisors. Report both your boss and his daughter, the food thief.
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    Font - Similar-Koala-5361 · 21 hr. ago · edited 19 hr. ago .2 Go to HR ASAP. In HR terms what happened is someone stole your lunch and the container it was in. The person who did this is another employee's close relation, and because that employee is your manager you are facing bullying and reprisal from your manager, and further bullying and hostile work environment from coworkers. You do not need to put up with this, you are not in the wrong. The daughter, the boss, and the coworkers are all i
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    Font - s lesbian_goose · 22 hr. ago - edited 18 hr. ago Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA She stole from you, and that's what happened. It's not your fault that the boss' daughter didn't check for peanuts. 100% her own fault. Report the boss to HR regardless, and warn him that you'll report him again if he takes revenge on any kind on you. Don't pay a cent towards her medical bills, bill her for the food she stole.
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    Font - rapt2right · 22 hr. ago Professor Emeritass [73] NTA She,the lunch thief, is an idiot . If she's ond enough to be in the workplace, she's WAY PAST old enough to know better than to steal and it's insanity for someone with an allergy to a common ingredient to eat random foods without knowing what is in them. You didn't put her in the hospital, she put herself in the hospital. I suggest going to HR and getting your side of this story on the record. It's pretty iffy that the daughter was put
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    Font - claypolejr · 22 hr. ago Colo-rectal Surgeon [47] NTA. His daughter could have killed herself by eating food without knowing what was in it. How were you to know? You don't "borrow" lunch. You "steal" it.

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